We bring you some totally amazing life lessons from Kirk Douglas who recently passed away at age 103 and an epic takedown of Xi Jinping and the Chinese political system. This is not your typical blog, in case you have not noticed.
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On Wednesdays, it is a different story. I like to give myself a break in between as I continue to read and find awesome links for you to publish on Mondays and Fridays. I may have a guest post (currently on hold due to budget cuts lol), my at least once a month support the blog post, some “Voices in my Head” type blog posts and rarely now travel trip reports or personal finance writings. Actually, I don’t know what will appear here on Wednesdays. Variety is the spice of life they say.
I take pride in my blog being different than all the others out there. What is always present though is a burning desire to educate, entertain and sometimes even inspire. And not pumping you to death promoting weapons of mass destruction (credit cards) every single day with content that is only served up to accommodate such plastic pumping!
So, a few things I read recently that totally blew my mind. And I thought they deserved to be singled out instead of being buried in the Oddz and Endz in a Monday or Friday post. Kind of like the Best of Web series I used to do when I singled out 5 awesome links. Hmmm, maybe I start those again?
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So, what do I have for you today? How about some excerpts from an interview Kirk Douglas did back in 2001. Kirk recently died at the age of 103! Acting legend is an understatement, read more about him HERE. I am reposting selected excerpts below, you will LOVE them! If not, I will give you your money back! Say what? đ
What I Have Learned by Kirk Douglas in Esquire April 2001
In order to achieve anything, you must be brave enough to fail.
I tell my sons they didnât have my advantages growing up. I came from abject poverty. There was nowhere to go but up.
Give your children lots of rope. Allow them to make their own mistakes. Donât give them too much advice. Each child is different; you have to respect that. Itâs a crapshoot: You roll the dice, and you see what happens.
Love has more depth as you get older.
The more Iâve studied the Torah, the less religious Iâve become, the more spiritual. We Jews are taught to read Hebrew, but we donât know what the hell weâre reading. At Yom Kippur services, I was reading the English translations, and it came to me: Thereâs so much adoration of God, but God doesnât need us to sing his praises. He just wants us to be better people.
Muslims follow Muhammad to reach God. Christians follow Jesus. Jews follow Moses. But itâs all the same God.
Everybody has an ego.
I never wanted to be a movie actor. I started out on the stage. The first time I was invited out here, I turned it down. Then Michael was born and I needed money, so I came. Sometimes, the thing that ties you down sets you free.
The learning process continues until the day you die.
If I thought a man had never committed a sin in his life, I donât think Iâd want to talk with him. A man with flaws is more interesting.
Making movies is a form of narcissism.
When I kiss my sons on the mouth, people look at me oddly. They look at closeness as a weakness. But a boy needs physical closeness with his father as well as with his mother.
No matter how bad things are, they can always be worse. So what if my stroke left me with a speech impediment? Moses had one, and he did all right.
Mistakes that are perceived as mistakes are often not mistakes at all.
One big disappointment in my life was One Flew Over the Cuckooâs Nest. I bought the rights to the book, but no one wanted to make it into a movie. So I paid to have it made into a Broadway play. There was one line in there that was so beautiful. McMurphy is trying to help all these people on the ward. There was a sink, and he tried to lift it out of the wall, but he couldnât. He tried really hard, but it wouldnât budge. As he was leaving the room, with all the guys watching, he turned around and said, âBut I tried, goddammit, I tried!â Sometimes I think I should have that as my epitaph.
Politics has become a dirty word.
Not long ago, I was playing golf, and I said to my partner, âLet those old geezers tee off first.â And my partner says, âKirk, those old geezers are fifteen years younger than you.â
There must be things in life that you can never master. Golf is one of them.
Age is in the mind. Iâve survived a helicopter crash and back surgery. I have a pacemaker. I had a stroke that almost made me commit suicide. But I tell myself, I have to continue growing and functioning. Thatâs the only antidote for age.
Maybe when you die, you come before a big, bearded man on a big throne, and you say, âIs this heaven?â And he says, âHeaven? You just came from there.â
Religion has killed millions of people. Something must be wrong.
People are always talking about the old days. They say that the old movies were better, that the old actors were so great. But I donât think so. All I can say about the old days is that they have passed.
Thinking of other people takes you away from constantly thinking of yourself.
It seems as if only now I really know who I am. My strengths, my weaknesses, my jealousiesâitâs as if all of it has been boiling in a pot for all these years, and as it boils, it evaporates into steam, and all thatâs left in the pot in the end is your essence, the stuff you started out with in the very beginning.
If you did not like the above, please leave and go read The Points Guy! Or any of these bloggers whose allegiance is to their pockets FIRST and YOU are the target product. Ok, I need to restrain myself you guys… đ
Ok, now for something deeper and I am going to stop right there as this one is a very long read.
Viral Alarm: When Fury Overcomes Fear
This is written by Xu Zhangrun, a professor of law at Tsinghua University and the author of series of prominent essays critiquing of the leadership of Xi Jinping. This is an EPIC takedown of Xi and the whole system of governance in China. This guy has already been demoted and likely to be arrested. It is just brutal. Just one small excerpt to give you an idea what this is about.
This viral outbreak, which has been exacerbated into a national calamity by the power-holders, is more perilous perhaps than total war itself, for everything is being caught up by the struggleâthe nationâs ethical fabric, its politics, our society, as well as the economy. Let me say that againâit is even more perilous than total war, for it lays the nation open to a kind of devastation that even foreign invaders in the past had failed to visit upon us. The ancients put it well, âOnly thieves nurtured at home can truly despoil a homeland.â Although the Americans may well be trying to undermine our economy, here at home The Axlerod is himself beating them to it! Please note: just as the epidemic was reaching a critical moment, He made a big deal about being âPersonally Thisâ and âPersonally Thatâ [when meeting Tedros Adhanom Ghebreyesus, director-general of the WHO on 29 January, Xi made a point of saying that he was âpersonally commandingâ the response to the outbreak, a statement that was widely derided online]. Empty words that only serve to highlight the hypocrisy. Such claims served merely to elicit nationwide outrage and sow desolation in the hearts of the people. Â
It is true: the level of popular fury is volcanic and a people thus enraged may, in the end, also cast aside their fear. Herein I offer my understanding of these developments in the broader context of the global system. Being mindful also of the cyclical nature of the political zeitgeist, and with a steady eye on what has been happening here in China since 2018 [when Xi Jinping was granted limitless tenure and Xu published his famous broadside aimed at the Party-State], I have formulated my thoughts under nine headings. Compatriots: they are respectfully offered here for your consideration.
And then the epic beatings continue in nine chapters…What a brave man, hope I don’t follow that up with a RIP!
See you Friday!
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TBBTheDude says
Crap…I can not log in to my site again and the Kirk Douglas link leads to a non working page. Wish I had a tech intern to fix things up around here…
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Sam says
Loved the Kirk Douglas quotes, Buzz.
How come we have to get old before we get wise?
TBBTheDude says
>>>>>>>>>>How come we have to get old before we get wise?
Yeah, soooo true. Not sure why this is đ
I called my site’s technical support. Apparently, some botnets were trying to log in to my site. Why would they care is beyond me! Maybe they are botnets sent by tpg?
Why so many youngsters are falling for crazy Bernie is beyond me.
Sad to say but if the airlines and hotels and (especially) cruise lines do not go all out to drum up some business (by using their loyalty base) due to the corona virus…we can finally nail that coffin in our “hobby”.
I got dentist appt at 8 am…it is like having flights at 6 am…Wtf was I thinking!
ABC says
Ok Boomer.
The odds have been stacked against a large proportion of the population since the financial crisis. Listening to the orange guy you would imagine that we are all sipping champagne and snorting cocaine. Instead we got white claw and fentanyl.
Young kids are idealistic, old farts know that u wonât change the world dL much and some may be stuck filling out tax forms and selling CCs.
MileageUpdate says
the odds are stacked against most people no matter the time or place. Especially if you are that first generation trying to climb out of the pig pile of the lower/middle class. Usually it takes someone with intense focus to carry you out and to get some breathing room above the masses. There is a constant pull to keep you broke and living paycheck to paycheck.
K. Marx says
Spoken like a true communist. The eternal struggle of the classes. Workers of the world, unite!
Uncle Jerry says
@ABC …… go tattoo your face!!!!
IVANKA 2024
J. Goebbels says
ABC is so HATEFUL. He promotes HATE here all the time. If you disagree with him he Hates you. HYPOCRITE!
DML says
Now that is a picture!
The piece from China is wonderful. There may be hope.
Thank you for finding it!
Carl Pietrantonio says
I suspect some in the upper levels of the Chinese government are smart enough to let people bitch and complain about things while there is this crisis on.
I had a very old (in the border patrol) and wise Supervisor once who said coming into muster and hearing people complaining and such was ok, it meant that while things might not be great, they could be tolerated as the steam was escaping from the boiler. But when one would walk into muster and all he got was dead silence and stares, then he knew he had trouble.
I just expand that idea to a much larger population in this case.
TBBTheDude says
You make a good point for sure.
ABC says
Who is Kirk Douglas?
TBBTheDude says
Spartacus!
Bernie'sBlockedArtery says
I thought that was Corey Booker? Now gimme free stuff
CBA says
Thatâs not me
Anonymous says
Youâre old, George, deaf and blind.
You canât stomach anybodyâs opinions if they donât match yours. This place has become an old musty bar where you and your internet friends go to complain and await death.
No uppity Democratic Socialism cause thatâs RED COMMYNISM BY GOD!!! And once it gets ahold the camps will be set up and weâre SCREWED!!!
Nobodyâs allowed to bring up Kobeâs violent rape because it offends your old coot âworship them sports guys!!â (âThe Good Old Daysâ) code.
Itâs a bubble, just like the ones you frown upon, where everyone has to like or dislike the exact same bloggers or else their opinion is crap.
You still provide some great links each week (itâs the only reason to visit) but this place is getting older and mustierâa group of set-in-their-ways, cobwebbed oldsters sitting on their internet stoop bitching about the youngstersâ new-fangled ways and ideas.
The world has gotten shittier and shittier during your generationâs lifetime. Not a coincidence. Maybe youâre NOT doing the best things? Cheering on your kid to work for Facebook instead of educating him to make better ethical choices? Maybe lying and cheating with business ccs and your family âemployeesâ wasnât the best example to set? Supporting certain unethical bloggers over others because you âjust like themâ?
Old people love to pat themselves on the back. It drowns out the sound of those dang offending new ways and ideas.
J. Goebbels says
Now that is a hateful rant! ABC.
TBBTheDude says
Hi John, is that you?
Thank you for taking the time to comment in my blog. And your support in so many clicks in both Amazon and cc links…yeah, sure.
Age is just a number. I am 52, look like 42, run like 32 and…you? đ
If I was blind I could use an extra tax deduction but sadly nope.
I am not officially deaf in one ear but pretty darn close lol.
I respect your opinion. Like I do Ramsey’s. And Ingy’s. I don’t think much of them but hey, you don’t think much of mine either so we are even!
Your comment about the Red communist and the camps made me laugh, are you okay?
Man, you sound really bitter, WTF!
I do find the best links and am very glad you enjoy them for….freeeeee!
I am not so sure the world has gotten shittier.
My kid is 22 and will not vote for Trump. He better not or he will be disinherited pronto LOL. He makes his own career decisions and he is getting some incredible work experience under his belt. And the first batch of restricted stock units land on Monday! He will be all right down the road.
I am not the blogger who keeps pounding on “Yes You DO have a business” desperate for the sales commission. Are you confusing me with others?
I am not sure you offered any “new ways and ideas” dude. Just same old bitter bitching…
Today I ran 4 1milers and my times were 7.27/7.17/7.18/7.21 Who are you calling old, excuse me???
This is my blog and I can do what I want.
#BeBest
Sam says
Anonymous-
More astute comments.
Darn, I gotta remember: Double S.
Gary says
Great post as always!
TBBTheDude says
Thank you Sir!
Harvey Weinstein says
I am working on my 3 point shot and dribble drive to to bucket. Certainly this will help everyone forget this rape nonsense.
BRITISH SPORTS BOOK says
ODDS 12-1 Bernie has another heart attack before Nov.
Brenton says
How did you get so many crazies to comment here? Usually you have to report the truth on mainstream media to get all this hate…
Anonymous says
The TRUTH is in the Eye of the Beholder, Brenton you need glasses.
TBBTheDude says
Ramsey is back me thinks đ
Brenton says
If it’s “in” my eye, why would glasses help?
Anonymous says
The TRUTH is in the Eye of the Beholder, Brenton you need glasses.
TBBTheDude says
Take it easy đ
GringoLoco says
Muchimas gracias for the Kirk Douglas piece. Some men get lost sometimes as the years unfurl but not Mr Douglas.
vive la diffĂ©rence, y’all – it makes Life interesting.
#TBBon
TBBTheDude says
De nada.
US politics is becoming a shitshow rivaling Central America lately đ
Daniel Ortega says
You wish!
ABC says
Maybe weâll experience a Billionaire pissing contest between Bloomberg and Trump this fall.
TBBTheDude says
Who is the other billionaire? đ